Differences, like poles on a battery, create potential.
Potential for learning.
Potential for growth.
Potential energy.
Potential to be better.
We can use the potential energy naturally generated by our differences as an opportunity for learning and growth. Or, we can waste those opportunities trying to eliminate the difference.
We are all different for a reason.
And that ye may put difference between holy and unholy, and between unclean and clean;
Leviticus 10:10 KJV