Time and mental energy are wasted by revisiting questions that shouldn’t be up for discussion.
Should I work out today? If yes, how long?
Should I eat that cheeseburger for lunch?
Should I write a blog post today?
Should I discipline my son when he forgets to take out the trash?
Should I address an employee about this issue?
Should I have a date night with my wife this week?
Simple, clear expectations are invaluable.
This heap be witness, and this pillar be witness, that I will not pass over this heap to thee, and that thou shalt not pass over this heap and this pillar unto me, for harm.
Genesis 31:52 KJV