For Sale?

What will you do for $1000?
What will you do for a million?
What will you do for a good time?
What will you do for fame?
What will you do to win?

Honest answers to these questions can be complex and multi-layered.
Before you try to answer, make sure you have a list of non-negotiables.

Is your character for sale?
Are your dreams for sale?
How about your family?

Resist the temptation to wager your non-negotiables.

But there was none like unto Ahab, which did sell himself to work wickedness in the sight of the Lord, whom Jezebel his wife stirred up.

1 Kings 21:25 KJV

Integrity

I believe peace comes from living with integrity in the moment. Integrity is your guide and the present moment is where it operates.

By definition, integrity is the quality of being honest, humble, and moral. If you look at integrity, you see it doesn’t have a past or a future it only exists in the present. Let me explain. The second you display honesty…it turns into truth. The second you display humility…it turns into kindness or grace. When expressed, integrity becomes the right action at the right time. Kinda cool…right? Here is an old cliche that sums it up.

If you are depressed, you are living in the past.
If you are stressed, you are living in the future.
If you are at peace, you are living in the present.

If you find yourself stressed, down, or out of sorts. Ask yourself two questions.
Am I present?
How is my integrity?

You can choose to be present and let integrity be your guide.
If you don’t like where you’re living…MOVE.

The integrity of the upright shall guide them: but the perverseness of transgressors shall destroy them.

Proverbs 11:3 KJV

Opinions

Opinions vary based on experience and culture.
Opinions may or may not be based in fact.
Opinions can be wrong.

You are entitled to your own opinion, not your own truth.

When YOUR OPINIONS become YOUR TRUTH, YOU’RE TRAPPED.

Your truth determines your actions.
Your actions form your culture.
Your culture influences your opinions.

See the problem…?

And Elijah came unto all the people, and said, How long halt ye between two opinions? if the Lord be God, follow him: but if Baal, then follow him. And the people answered him not a word.

1 Kings 18:21 KJV

Never 7

Seven is a beautiful number. Biblically it is the number of completion and the first day of rest. I like to think of seven as God’s rhythm number… six on and one off. That said… I think we have a problem with 7.

We mentally rank everything. It gives us bearing on what we are doing, how close we are to completion, and how well we perform. Be careful that you don’t fall prey to SEVEN. I don’t remember the first time I heard this concept, but I have found it to be an invaluable tool for action.

NEVER USE 7

Anytime you need to make a weighted judgement, rank the decision on a scale of 1-10 but don’t use the number 7. This is a little uncomfortable at first but it is a springboard for action.

7 is average.
7 is lazy.
7 is meh…
7 is a copout.

If something is a 6 or an 8, it requires action. There is either something wrong that needs immediate attention or something is right and it deserves our praise! Answer these three questions.

Would you date someone who is a 6?
Would you date someone who is an 8?
Would you settle for 7?

Force yourself out of the comfort of 7, out of the comfort of average, and move toward excellence. Make a commitment and stop riding the fence of mediocrity.

So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth.

Revelation 3:16 KJV

Opposition and Echo

Opposition is uncomfortable. | Echo is comfortable.

Opposition has a different perspective. | Echo resonates.

By nature, we are more apt to engage with echo instead of opposition. The algorithms of your favorite social media platform are built on this very fact. Algorithms are seeking engagement not insight.

How you think and the decisions you make are your responsibility. Be well informed. Surround yourself with people who will push you, not the people who always agree with you.

Bad decisions are made in an echo chamber.
Your opposition is not always your enemy.

But he forsook the counsel of the old men, which they had given him, and consulted with the young men that were grown up with him, and which stood before him:

1 Kings 12:8 KJV

Examples

Our lives become a playbook for our family, our children, our community, and our world. An example of what to do, what not to do. 

How to overcome problems.
How to wilt in the face of adversity. 
How to believe anything. 
How to study and search for truth. 
How to stand up for what is right.
How to go along with the crowd.
How to persist.
How to quit.
How to encourage.
How to criticize.
How to work.
How to play.
How to love.
How to hate.
How to forgive.

Take some time to be thankful and grateful for the blessings and positive influences in your life. Then… go be one for someone else.

Your life is an example – a good one or a bad one. Your choice.

Then will I cut off Israel out of the land which I have given them; and this house, which I have hallowed for my name, will I cast out of my sight; and Israel shall be a proverb and a byword among all people:

1 Kings 9:7 KJV

Excellence

To say that Solomon was the richest man who ever lived, is an understatement. Have you ever heard the story that Bill Gates is so rich that if he dropped a 100 dollar bill on the ground it would not be worth his time to turn and pick it up? Well Solomon was so rich, if he dropped Bill Gates on the ground, It would not be worth his time to turn and pick him up! 🙂

The temple Solomon built for the Lord and the house he built for himself were magnificent. The detail that is recorded in 1 Kings 6-7 is pretty spectacular and almost begs the question, WHY? Why spend multiple pages explaining the details of these buildings?

If you want to build something great, you start with details. The plans must align with the vision so the actions can result in excellence. Here are my three D’s of excellence.

Direction is the choice.
You must have a vision of what can be.

Detail is the plan.
You must know the cost and what is required.

Determination is the action.
You must be willing to do what is necessary.

Excellence is never an accident.

What do you want?

What if God asked you, “What do you want?” How would you answer? I believe He has already asked and you are already answering.

We get up every day and go to work, school, or the couch. 

We study, learn, and improve or we disengage, play games, and binge Netflix. 

We take the next hit of cherry flavored nicotine or we breathe clean air.

We do things every day based on our goals and what we believe is possible. Do you have goals? Do you write them down? Where do you see yourself in 5 years? How about next month? Take a minute and figure out where you are headed. Do you want to go there? Your direction directly affects what you do and what you do directly affects your destiny.

What do you want?
Don’t tell me. Show me.

In Gibeon the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream by night: and God said, Ask what I shall give thee.

1 Kings 3:5 KJV

Knocks and Stocks

If something has value, it has cost. Right? We perceive college education as valuable because it is so expensive. Oftentimes, the most expensive tuition is paid at the school of hard knocks.

Quick story on knocks and stocks.
After the financial crisis in 2008, everything was tight and I was thrifty. My wife and I had been working and saving money for a few years. We were really proud to build a 60k nest egg and I thought we were really doing well. I made the mistake of losing focus on the business and started looking for a way to make some easy money. I’m a risk taker but not a gambler…so I thought.

Continue reading “Knocks and Stocks”

Honor and Love

“O, I wish I had a drink of water from the well in Bethlehem.” King David was held up in a cave outside the city. The enemy was stationed there and ready for war. David was tired, thirsty, and wishing out loud, as we all do. Three of his men overheard and went into action. They fought their way through enemy lines, made it to the well, and retrieved the water for their King. David was so moved by the love and honor shown by his men, he would not drink it. He proceeds to pour out the water unto God.

This is one of the all time great stories of humility, honor, love, and respect. The fact that David poured out the water, for which his men risked their lives, is a testament to the reason they went in the first place.

This level of humility begs the question. When was the last time I received a blessing I thought I was unworthy of? 

If being a servant is beneath you, being a leader is beyond you.

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